Isle of Cumbrae Elderly Forum has a story for YOU!

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Let us, the Isle of Cumbrae Elderly Forum, tell you a story!

Sadly this is not a Fairy Story but it has all of the usual ingredients of a good story - heroes, villains, mystery and, of course, victims.

Whilst reading this story, please try to hold in your mind two facts;

1 - The U.K. cannot deport the killer of a Headmaster as this would deny him access to a "family life" and thus contravene his Human Rights as defined by article 8 of the Human Right's Act.

2 - North Ayrshire Council tell us that they have £54 million of our money "invested" in different institutions - not being used to improve of lives of those people who gave them the money in the first place - but just laying dormant somewhere.

Back to our story!

There is a beautiful Island called Cumbrae that had several privately run Care/Residential Homes for its Elderly. However, one by one the people who owned them shut these Homes. This left Cumbrae with nowhere on the Island to keep their Elderly safe and close to their relatives and friends, or "having access to a family life".

The 9 residents in the last Home were sent off of the Island and scattered around in the west of Scotland - most have since died. Except for one lady who was lucky enough to have relatives with the means to provide her with 24-hour care in her own home, and so she was brought back to Cumbrae where she stayed for another 2 years.

One lady born on the Island but sent away is still convinced that she will be coming home to end her days - how very sad!

The Forum was formed to attempt to try to stop this happening. So after a struggle the local Council ran two Consultation Days to ask Cumbrae's Elderly what it could do to improve the lives of the Elderly living on the Island.

They were given a lot of information on the gaps in the provision of Care for the Island's Elderly, with the most important gap being the complete lack of anywhere on the Island for the Elderly to go once they could no longer stay in their homes. From all of this, the Council produced a Consultation Document.

To be scrupulously fair, the Council did a lot of things to plug the smaller gaps that existed and things did improve.

However, the largest and most pressing need of a Residential Care Facility Home was not even considered by the Council - money was as ever a problem!

On this Cumbrae Island several Elderly people were becoming unable to care for themselves in their Homes and so two "Integrated Care Beds" were provided at the Local Hospital, but the Elderly could only stay in one of these for 8 weeks. No matter how many empty beds there were in the Hospital - 8 weeks was the Rule and that was that.

We pause to wonder just which faceless cog in the bureaucracy machinery of the Health Board made these unforgiving and inflexible Rules?

But dear Reader, you and I know that Rules are not made with Compassion or Humanity in mind, but Rules are Rules and after 8 weeks if Cumbrae's Elderly could not return to their homes - off of the Island they went!

You may wonder at this point of the story "why a killer cannot have his Human Rights breached but it is o.k. to breach those of the frail and Elderly". This is obviously the mystery part of this story.

In this story appear several people, some with Spouses some without, and again it seems it is acceptable to the local authorities for married couples to be separated, sending one somewhere off of the island to live whilst their life's partner still lives alone on the Island.

Remember, these are people who have committed no crime other than that of becoming frail and Elderly but as none of them had murdered anyone, Faceless Bureaucracy was not interested in their plight.

So, not only are they denied any sort of family life, they are also separated from their life's partner. If they are Elderly and frail they are not accorded the same rights that are given to a criminal.

Just one of these couples (both in their 80's) struggled for years to stay together, her caring for him because she loved him and wanted him at home with her.

When he became too frail to stay at home, he was sent up to the local Hospital where he had his allotted 8 weeks. The question then was "what next"?

Again she took him home but caring for him proved too much for her and she was admitted to the local hospital herself.

What then to do with her husband of 62 years. The kind, generous and obvious thing to do was to send him up to the local hospital so they could be together.

However, this is where the Rules came in! Rules, we all know, are not made with compassion, humanity or common sense in mind. Nor are they applied with any of these attributes.

No, the Rules were applied and off the Island he went.

After a week or two it was discovered that he needed "palliative care" so he was returned to the Island's hospital where he died two days later.

Like us, you may wonder just why it was necessary at this time of their lives for them to be separated - in different towns with a strip of water between them when just a little humanity could have made a world of difference.

This isn't the end of this story, as we've lots of instances of what is happening on this Island to the Elderly. Sadly though, this isn't fiction and it's happening here to people we know in Britain in the 21st Century.

The real mystery is "WHY"? The Hospital is there and the Council obviously has the money - (The leader of the Council is reported as saying that the loss of £15 million would not be the end of the world considering NAC's £400 million Budget!).

From this we would surmise that spending just a small part of such a sum on a much-needed facility here in Millport would not be the "end of the World" either for the Council. However, it would be a whole bright New World for the Elderly sent off of the Island to end their days in loneliness!

So, we leave it to you to decide who are the villains, heroes and victims of this particular story.

But dear Reader, with this particular story, you can be sure it's NOT.

"The End".


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mary bowman says

this entry is most valuable to me in relation to my elderly parent who wishes to stay on the island . i feel you should all lobby your MSP for better facilities for the lunch club , want more clubs for the elderly and more Carers on the island to keep folk in their own home. i was saddened to walk along the promenade and meet so many old folk on their own . sitting alone. they need more places to meet and socialise . i feel very strongly on this matter.

mary bowman says

i think we need to shout louder for more facilities for the Elderly and new premises for the lunch club to run on a daily basis . this article has been informative for me and i would be interested in hearing about any future developments .

June Allison says

The Lunch Club re-opens after the summer break on 6th August 2008 at 12.30 in the D.A. Hall followed at 1.pm by the OPEN FORUM MEETING where Tea and Coffee will be served.
All Welcome
COME AND HEAR WHAT WE'VE BEEN UP TO AND HELP SUPPORT OUR FIGHT!

Jean Kerr (McKinnon) says

The next Forum meeting is on 27th August @ 1pm following the Lunch Club and we would love to welcome Mary Bowman to come along and hear what our plans are AND especially how difficult it all is to achieve while dealing with NAC!!

Everything we do is organised, run and funded by volunteers who are all over 60 and many in their 80's and 90's. Our MSP, Ken Gibson, is one of the few who actually DO help us but even he is struggling at times with red tape and bureaucracy.

ANYONE WHO FEELS STRONGLY ABOUT ISSUES CONCERNING OUR ELDERLY IS VERY WELCOME TO HELP AT ANY TIME.

Sandra Goldie says

As a summer visitor to Millport and a relative of the gentlemen whose story is told above, I am so disgusted with the Council's attitude. I suppose many other councils are just as bad, but that doesn't make it right. It is heartbreaking for the families involved and frightening for those approaching their final years. It makes me wonder if the people making these decisions have elderly parents of their own, or are they so highly paid that they can pay for 24 hour care anyway, so it isn't a problem for them. I just hope that your group can force these faceless bureaucrats to change their policies and also to open a residential care home on the island, or have one within the hospital, which would save them the cost of a separate building. and medical facilities would be available quickly when needed. Good luck with you efforts.
Sandra Goldie

j smith says

Says it all when social department give written warnings to those involved in taking care of a child that was murdered.....and 15 sacked for sending e-mails.

Morag Brown says

I am truly appalled to hear these sad, no tragic stories. I cannot believe the mental abuse that these people (who probably contributed such a lot to our society and were proud human beings) had to suffer and endure. They were tortured by such stupid rules and regulations. We have all these European rights etc which stick up for how people in jails, drug addicts etc are treated, however don't look after our elderly who made us who we are today.

It should be a human right that our elderley are kept together, in a safe caring environment, properly cared for and with great respect. They have feelings and are not to be hidden away when it doesn't suit. It's a disgrace and I hope it will be changed.

Janice Hutt says

I feel very sad and very angry. I am related to people who have been affected by this situation.

However, I would still feel the same if I did not have anyone on the island. At a time when her husband was extremely ill, and having to face the awful realization that he would not get better, they both needed care, support and compassion.

Instead, their situation was made much worse by the caring agencies. My aunt was actually made ill through this, and when he died, she had to grieve for her husband, and also try to get over their treatment, which could and should have been so different.

Perhaps the council needs to be taken to court under the same legislation which is used to protect all these criminals. It does not seem as though they will make provision unless they are forced to, despite having millions to spare.

Good Luck.

Janice Hutt

Janice Hutt says

Can you tell me if we can still send the letters to Nicola Sturgeon?
Thanks
Janice Hutt

June Allison says

Hi All,
Today we were fortunate enough to be able to speak to Minister Shona Robison, our MSP Kenneth Gibson, and our Councillor Alan Hill.
We had a very good meeting with all of the Forum Committee present to speak to the Minister during the course of which we were able to hand over the bulk of the, in excess of 1000 letters, calling for long term care on the island for our elderly.
Thanks to everyone who made this all possible.

Evelyn McIntyre says

As a volunteer of The Forum Lunch Club, on every Wednesday in the D.A. Hall, may I say the meals made by the cooks are absolutely delicious. We all enjoy our 2 course lunch. Thanks to all the cooks.

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